
Play
is the work of children.
Play
is not idle time for children- it is a time for exploration and
learning. As a pediatric Occupational Therapist, I encourage fine motor
and sensory motor development through play-based activities. Children
are excited to enter my office because it is full of educational toys
and games to keep learning fun.
As
the holiday season approaches, I have been approached by frustrated
parents, unsure of what kinds of toys they should be buying for their
children. Gift giving is especially difficult for family members who do
not have direct contact with the child regularly (distant grandparents,
aunts, uncles, etc.). They may not fully understand the
child’s needs, abilities, or interests. With some basic
knowledge, everyone can choose a quality gift which promotes lifelong
motor, language, cognitive, and social skills-truly a gift that keeps
giving!
Each
year, I take inventory of my own therapy supplies and purchase
additional toys and games for the new-year. As I shop, I look for
quality products which can be used across many age ranges and
developmental levels. I analyze each toy and focus on activities which
will be motivating for both a 3-year old with Autism and a 7-year-old
with dyspraxia. When I look at a puzzle, I see opportunities for visual
attention, scanning, figure ground, spatial awareness, task completion,
and use of a pincer grasp. A magnetic fishing game requires
turn-taking, refined grasp patterns, bilateral coordination, eye-hand
coordination, and matching skills. If that fishing game is placed on a
platform swing, the child’s balance reactions, postural
control, and sensory processing abilities will be challenged.
Thinking
like a therapist will help you find the perfect toy or game for your
child. Here are more guidelines for choosing holiday gifts:
1.
Safety! This should always be the first consideration. Toys
should durable and free of toxic materials. I personally prefer
Discovery Toys, as they have not had a mandatory recall in 30 years and
offer a Lifetime Warranty. The age recommendations should be clearly
stated on the box, which will help narrow down your options. Since many
children with special needs are developmentally younger than their
chronological age, use their developmental age as a guide. For example,
if your 8-year-old continues to mouth objects, you should probably stay
away from older toys which may contain small pieces.
2.
Skills addressed. Ask your therapists (Occupational
Therapist, Physical Therapist, and/or Speech and Language Pathologist)
for ideas regarding which skills need to be developed, based on their
therapy goals. Your therapists will love to hear that you are carrying
over skills into the home environment! For children with fine motor
delays, I always recommend looking at the size of the pieces (are they
the best size and shape for grasping?) and the packaging (large
containers with handles can help children develop upper body strength
as they carry the container to the toy shelf). Children learn best
through hands-on play, so I believe that their toys should be
interactive and child-driven, not battery operated!
3.
Value. Find toys which will grow with your child. Think
about how you can adapt the toy or game as your child grows and
develops new skills. Toys should be stimulating and enjoyable, even
after the initial novelty wears off. If the child is more interested in
the box, then you’ve chosen the wrong toy! If you have more
than one child, find an activity which all children can use together
(even if it needs to be modified for a younger child) and encourage
socialization and cooperative play. Better to have a few quality toys
that can be used for years than a houseful of toys that go unused!
4.
Type of play. Decide whether you want to encourage
independent play skills or if you need materials for structured play.
If you would like your child to learn to play independently, while you
make a phone call or prepare dinner, look for a familiar toy with fewer
pieces that your child can be successful with (i.e. cars, large
blocks). Save more challenging activities for one-on-one time.
Structured time is a great time for playing a board game, matching
capital letters to lower case, or assembling a challenging puzzle.
5.
Fun! Let your child’s interests, such as animals
or trains, guide your purchases so they will be excited to learn.
Educational toys should be fun for the whole family, too. Play with
your children. Show your enthusiasm. If you are excited about the toy,
your child will be, too.
Once
you decide on a toy, it’s time to play!
Happy
Shopping, Happy Playing, and Happy Holidays!