
There are a number of benefits to using sign
language with babies, toddlers and preschool children. Some of there
include, but are definitely no limited to: enhanced vocabulary
development, fewer frustrations during the "terrible twos" and enhanced
parent-child bond.
Larger Vocabularies
When a baby's brain develops the area that
understands visual information develops sooner than the area that
understands auditory information, so a younger baby may be able to
understand what they see earlier than they can understand what they
hear. Adding the visual component, the sign, to the auditory component,
your spoken words, may help babies to understand more. This may improve
their receptive language abilities.
Children learn language by interacting with
others. When they interact, they are able to make mistakes, get
corrective feedback, learn and expand their skills. I can remember a
time when my own daughter was about 13 months old. She has been signing
since she was 11 months old and had about 5-6 signs.
One of her favorite signs (and play objects)
was BALL. One day she pointed to an orange on the counter and signed
BALL. I followed her lead and picked up the orange and showed her the
sign for ORANGE. She looked at me like I was crazy and signed BALL back
to me! I quickly peeled and cut up the orange into little pieces, gave
her a piece and signed ORANGE. This was her first bite of orange and
she loved it! I must have given her 30 little bits of this new fruit
and signed ORANGE each time. Towards the end of the orange she was
signing ORANGE back to me to request another piece of her new favorite
thing to eat!
The mistake she made, introduced an
opportunity for me to teach and she then learned a new word. A word is
a word, whether it’s signed or spoken! There were countless times that
our interactions in sign led to learning opportunities, because she
could sign before she could teach. For example she once pointed to a
thermostat and signed “LIGHT”. I took that as an opportunity to teach
her the sign for “WARM”. By the time she was 16 months of age, she had
80+ words: 20 verbal words and 60 ASL signs. Most babies at 16 months
of age have 10 spoken words.
Fewer Frustrations &
Challenging Behaviors
Babies and toddlers are able to express
emotions and will eventually point or gesture towards things that they
want. These are language milestones we’ve all gone through. When a
toddler is able to use sign language before their speech develops
clearly they are able to be clearly understood. Their symbolic
language, their signs, is much clearer than vocalizing or pointing.
Many of the challenging behaviors that you
see during the ‘terrible twos’ period is because a toddler isn’t
understood and is unable to clearly help you understand them. If a baby
is pointing at the top of the fridge and clearly wants something there,
a parent may need to play 20 questions to find out what is wanted. If a
baby can sign ‘BANANA” because she’s sees the bananas that a peeking
out from behind two boxes of cereal.
When a toddler can sign, when their speech
is not yet clear, to make a request, e.g., signing “WANT MILK”; get
your attention, e.g., signing “MOMMY LOOK” or to escape a situation,
e.g., signing “FOOD Finished. UP?”, less challenging behaviors will be
seen.
Improved Parent–Child Relationships
A number of moms from my past classes have
stopped me in parking lots and coffee shops to share their stories just
on this topic. After taking a baby sign language class with me with
their babies, they felt the need two years later to thank me and to let
me know that their toddlers seem so calm and happy because they are
understood. Calm and happy toddlers make calm and happy parents!
I remember clearly the times that my son at
11 or 12 months would sign for something that he wanted, e.g., a COOKIE
or a drink of MILK. Often times, I could tell from his face that he was
happy that he got what he wanted but I could really tell from his smile
and the sparkle in his eye that he was so proud that he could make
himself understood.
Signing with babies and, especially,
toddlers allows parents to more clearly understand their children. Any
time you are able to clearly communicate with another person in your
life you are able to connect with them and those continual connections
bring you closer together. Signing with babies, toddlers and preschool
children also parents and other caregivers to get to know and connect
with their children earlier and with more clarity.
Sara Bingham is the
author of the award-winning The Baby Signing Book and the founder of
WeeHands, a sign language program with instructors across North
America. She is a frequent contributor to parenting magazines and
baby-related professional websites. Since 2001, WeeHands qualified
instructors have taught thousands of families and caregivers across
North America to sign with their infants and toddlers.